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Wednesday, March 18, 2026

Folly Bros


Zoltan paid a fast visit--his first--to the Folly.  Hosting a straight guy in his mid-30s was definitely a novel experience but he seemed to enjoy it just fine despite arriving in the midst of an Oscar-watch party.  


On Monday morning we drove to the Beth David Memorial Gardens so that he could pay his respects to his grandparents.  It was my second visit.  I'd been before with his father.


Audrey personalized her parents' niches on the top row with a crown and a harmonica. Simple, symmetrical and very cool.  I spent several Thanksgivings at their apartment in Jackson Heights in the late 70s. David came with me once, too.


Zoltan shares my fascination with cemeteries so we wandered around for a bit afterward.  



En route to the Hollywood Beach Broadwalk, 20 minutes due east, he told me how much he had disliked Disney World as a kid and his contempt for single adults who visit it.  Walt struck back quickly.


Three tacos from Floridays helped him get over his childhood PTSD and empty his wallet.



We took this mermaid shot for the D-Girls who beat their uncle to the Folly by five years.


Spring Break was in full swing so we skedaddled to the Stranahan House in Fort Lauderdale for a self-guided tour of a remarkably well-preserved, multi-use structure which has fronted the New River for more than a century.


Frank Stranahan, an Ohio refugee and entrepreneur, first opened it as a trading post frequented by the locals, then mostly members of the Seminole Tribe whose trust he earned with fair dealings.



Frank and his wife Ivy, a young school teacher, lived together upstairs until the early Florida real estate market collapsed and two powerful hurricanes devastated the area in the mid 1920s.  Frank drowned himself in the river but Ivy turned the place into a boarding house, living in the attic when all the rooms were full. She remained on site until her death at the age of 90 in 1971 even after it became a popular restaurant under new ownership.  The woman had pluck


. . . and a close female friend, a pharmacist, whose home she often visited.  Hmmm.  The tabebuia trees are in bloom now, too.  That's how I know spring is imminent in Lake Worth Beach.


Frank, now considered the founding father of Fort Lauderdale was also its first postmaster. This oddly modern portrait was painted in 1929, the year of his death.


Florian and I had visited the post office almost two decades ago, when my beard was still dark.  Time waits for no one.



We ended the afternoon at the Loxahatchee National Wildlife Preserve under a rainbow.


Snowy egrets, ibises, a roseate spoonbill, a snake and a mostly submerged alligator definitely made the quick stop worthwhile.


The next morning, gray skies and a deep dive in the temperature, accompanied by blustery winds, sent us to Jupiter, the "elbow" or eastern most point of Florida, instead of MacArthur Park where we had planned to kayak in the estuary.  But first we stopped for a fascist photo-op on the Southern Bridge, soon to be re-named for you-know-who.  PBI is about to become DJT, too (if you know, you know).  Ugh!


Our tour of the Jupiter Lighthouse grounds included another of example of early white settler (a.k.a. "cracker") architecture in Florida.


Twelve people once inhabited the Tindall House, built in 1892 and re-located here for preservation purposes.  Mom and Dad conceived ten kids in this bed.


Zoltan and I agreed that Randy, our pompadoured tour guide, aced his assignment with solid information delivered with a subtle soupçon of defensive liberalism.  "There are times when I will be referring to the BLM," he said.  It refers to the Bureau of Land Management, not Black Lives Matters."  You definitely have to be careful what you say nowadays.  Randy seemed most at home in the kitchen and dining room.




I've photographed the Jupiter Lighthouse on multiple occasions but had never been inside. Built in 1860, it was designed by George Meade, a young lieutenant in the U.S. Army Corps of Engineers. By the time the Civil War broke out, he had risen to the rank of brigadier general and eventually defeated Robert E. Lee at the Battle of Gettysburg.  His short temper earned him the nickname "Old Snapping Turtle."


An enormous ficus tree at the base of the lighthouse shades the brick deck.


The original lantern, an antique now worth nearly $10 million, can be seen from ships up to 25 miles out on the Atlantic. It has been lit continuously every night since the defeat of the Confederacy.


No place in Palm Beach County offers better views.



Arthritis notwithstanding, I climbed steadily to the top, 105 steps in all without taking advantage of any of the rest stops.


Going backwards down the spiral staircase definitely eased my descent.


We stopped at the Loggerhead Marine Life Center and the Manatee Lagoon before heading back to the Folly where Thom had prepared his traditional Erin go Bragh dinner for St. Patrick's Day.  I hadn't noticed this prehistoric replica when I visited with Florian in December, but some of the turtles that had been given names from classical Greek mythology were still recuperating.


At 6'4," Zoltan measured up if the Manatee Lagoon did not.  None were present.


On Wednesday morning, we indulged in some nostalgia:  Zoltan still holds the Pines record for consuming the most pancakes flipped by me at breakfast.  He now holds the Folly record as well.


After dropping him off to see the Rembrandt exhibit at the Norton Museum, I explored the waterfront in West Palm Beach for the first time since the pandemic.  


The public has access to a promenade with views of the Royal Park Bridge which connects  the Palm Beaches.


For as little as $7.5 million (or as much as $78!), residents can watch the draw bridge rise and lower with super yachts docked in the distance.  In 2022, a woman fell to her death when a negligent tender raised the spans as she was crossing the fittingly named bridge with her bike.



You've got to wonder what the Apostle of Cuban Independence would have had to say about what's going on today in his beloved homeland.  He's also memorialized in Ybor City and New York.


Zoltan enjoyed the Wakodahatchee Wetlands, our final stop, more than any other tourist attraction he's ever seen in Florida.  It recycles millions of gallons of water on a daily basis and also serves as a wildlife sanctuary.  Dagny beat her uncle here, too, although there's no chance she remembers it.

Zoltan reprimanded another visitor for petting this anhinga.  "How would you like it if someone patted your ass?" he growled to a clueless teenager and his mother.


A marsh hare and a purple martin risked their lives to feed near the water. 


According to another excited visitor, this alligator just missed lunching on a bird that strayed a little too close.


A pair of wood storks photobombed us!




Thursday, May 28, 2020

Early Pandemic Life

I was lucky to already be in Florida when covid-19 brought the world to its knees. Early in the New Year, Chris asked if I'd seen an article about the novel corona virus circulating in China. Our conversation briefly brought me back to July 3, 1981 when the New York Times first reported about what eventually became the AIDS pandemic. It couldn't be as bad as THAT, I said thinking of David, my first and only boyfriend, who succumbed to HIV in 1993.


Oddly enough, covid-19's biggest impact was cohabiting with another person for the first time in nearly 40 years. Thom fled Queens two days prior to Governor Cuomo's shut down of the state and self-quarantined when Governor DeSantis decided that too many New Yorkers were flocking to Florida.


Thom arrived the day after Palm Beach County closed its beaches. I began swimming my 1,850 strokes at dawn every other day when a sheriff's deputy (who claimed to be a former triathlete) told me to exercise discretion.



Hour-long saltwater immersion, a plastic surgery scar and backlight do nothing for 7:45 a.m. selfies.


No two early morning skies were alike. That's why Christine's friend Rick made sure he photographed EVERY sunrise during the final years of his life.


Social distancing didn't really become a thing in Lake Worth until early April. Don Victorio's, our very responsible local green market, restricted entry to five customers at a time and painted circles six feet apart on the sidewalk outside.



Walmart used grocery carts and tape to keep customers in line and apart.


Grocery shopping didn't require covering your face at first. But when it did, Thom and I made a deal: I shopped with a mask he'd received from a factory in China


. . . and he did the disinfecting.


He also made a huge eggplant parmigiana. On our return home, he'll drop off a frozen piece for Christine in DC.



We got some daily food prep competition going with Florian, texting menu photos back and forth across the country pretty much every day. Where would you rather have eaten?

Chicago fare:

Homemade spätzle


Festive macaroni salad


Glazed ham a la beggar


German potatoes and white asparagus


Easter bunny dog treats


Lake Worth fare:

Oatmeal with fresh berries


Sunday bran muffins


Fruit salad


Caprese variation (chef's tip: pesto lasts a lot longer than basil leaves!)


Crudites, hummus & V8


Linguine with clam sauce and fresh garlic bread


With help from Ina Garten, Thom substituted a batch of killer cosmos for our usual weekend margaritas ("if it's margarita time, it must be the weekEND").  Thanks for the new cocktail shaker, Joe and Magda!


Retirement prepared me well for social isolation at home:
REPEAT

Thom, a highly skilled floater (see above), had some difficulty adjusting to the Folly routine until he discovered the vicarious thrills reading offers.  He began with Homosaic, my memoir ("it sounds just like you"), and completed nearly ten novels including a couple of doorstoppers.  His favorite to date:  A Little Life by Hanya Yanagihara, the page-turning chronicle of misery that everyone but me seems to love.  We also went our separate ways in the evening after he chose "Breaking Bad" over "My So-Called Life."  "Who wants to relive high school again?" he scoffed.  My inner 16-year-old girl, that's who!

The pandemic introduced us to Zoom calls, including one that encompassed three time zones.  But mostly the Pines crew assembled on Sunday mornings to compare risk thresholds, predict the future and share time-fillers, just like everyone else with computers and enough coin to pay for broadband.


In 2005, the Red Cross sent me to New Orleans in the aftermath of Hurricane Katrina. Rescue workers used this symbol to mark houses with structural instabilities in the Ninth Ward, meaning that residents couldn't re-occupy them after floodwaters receded.


It gave me an idea when pandemic politics in Lake Worth Beach reached fever pitch.  Video of a local councilman accusing the mayor of allowing the electric company to turn off the power in the homes of people who couldn't pay their bills ricocheted at warp speed around the internet.

"Look what else she's doing," I could have tweeted in the Fake News era, using a photo I doctored with rudimentary software on my Mac.  "Stigmatizing covid-19 victims."


Fortunately, the truth is a lot less interesting, almost reassuring given the situation in New York City.  Although Lake Worth is a hot spot in Palm Beach County, our numbers seem minuscule:  as of May 28, 356 people tested positive in a zip code populated by nearly 31,000 people.

As you can imagine, there are far fewer cases (just 32!) in Palm Beach proper which has 1/3 of our population.   Thom and I biked or walked the entire length of the island where many of the wealthiest people in America own obscenely large mansions, mostly hidden behind very tall hedges.









There's even a local "vicarage"!


But the pandemic denied even the wealthiest residents an opportunity to stroll on the recently replenished beach. 


It was hard to feel much sympathy.  Thom's attitude is more charitable than mine, which can be summed up as "off with their heads." Scofflaws tended to be younger and fit.


For a walk along North Ocean Boulevard, we parked across from the Palm Beach Country Club's golf course.


Here's the view from the north end of the island, looking east towards Palm Beach Shores.


Construction, deemed essential, continued apace, complete with social distancing.


The North Trail takes you along the Intracoastal past gorgeous trees.



We often used Worth Avenue as a jumping off point for our walks.  


Several stores were open by appointment only.


Residents walked their pigs as usual.


Some of the real estate in West Palm Beach is pretty pricey, too.


Apartments in the Bristol, just over the draw bridge, can cost as much as $14 mil.


Painting sexy Latinas under bridges seems to be a thing in Florida.


Speaking of sexy Latinas, this woman filmed a virtual exercise class.  Location, location, location!



Henry Flagler's house, seen here from across the Intracoastal, is Thom's favorite.  Somehow, I don't find Gilded Age abodes nearly as offensive as the newer models in Palm Beach. Unlike most of today's rapacious capitalists, Flagler earned his wealth by building something:  oil refineries and railroads.


An enormous banyan tree grows nearby.


I'll take funky Lake Worth any day.




Although I must admit this sidewalk grave marker on Lake Avenue does give me pause.


Bernie's local campaign headquarters.  He's peering out from the window.


Wishful thinking.


Thom scored a pair of hair clippers at Walmart before they became scarcer than toilet paper.  Like my fresh 'rona cut?


Life goes on as usual for critters big and small, including the tiny nocturnal frogs around the Folly pool who belt louder than Ethel Merman.


Can you find the birds?


This iguana's unreal colors reminded me of Mar A Lago's most famous occupant, who lives less than two miles south.  Except his jowls, not his crest, are orange.




Staying at the Folly two months longer than planned gave the local flora, some of it previously ignored, time to bloom.


Spathoglottis (ground orchid)


Aechmea fasciata


Frangipani


Plumeria



Tabebuia tree


The vivid Royal Poinciana tree blossoms blew me away


. . . but not enough to coordinate the exterior of my house.


Google image couldn't help identify these beauties.




The blooms don't last long when the rains come.


I spend almost as much time editing and organizing my photos as I do taking them.  


You've already seen selections from Florida, Food, Friends, Miscellaneous, Nature and Selfies.  These were among best in other categories during the pandemic:

Abstractions









Bicycles

 



Black & white




People


And now it's time to pop our bubble and head north. But not before wishing Joe happy birthday from the Folly pool!