Showing posts with label Dad. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Dad. Show all posts

Tuesday, January 18, 2022

FLASHBACK: Baja Peninsula (1987)

Alaska, Australia and now, the Baja Peninsula with my father, our least successful road trip even though this time we travelled in style.  Dad had purchased a Vanagon, a high end VW camper van with a pop top,  and we towed the Honda 100cc motorcycle he and Mom had given me as a Christmas gift, less than a year before I left for college.

The Mexican love of color and American culture was on full display in Ensenada.


You rarely see a dog this skinny in America.


We found Day of the Dead memorials in the middle of nowhere.


I'd grown up in the desert, but the landscape felt much different, perhaps because of its isolation.








Dad suggested including the knife in this photo to give a better sense of the size of the spider and her egg sac.  Pretty sure he learned this trick from the crime scene photos he collected in Japan.


Our route stayed mostly inland until we detoured to the Gulf of California, tucked in between the east side of the peninsula and the Mexican mainland.  The sand dunes were prettier than the shallow, murky water.


Dad had warned me about driving faster than 40 mph after we filled up on Mexican gas because lower octane levels would affect the performance of a combustion engine. 


I didn't listen and the engine seized up about halfway to Cabo San Lucas, our final destination.  Fortunately, we hailed a passing vehicle and the driver gave us a ride into San Ignacio, a sleepy oasis.  And the motel manager allowed us to leave the Vanagon until we could retrieve it in exchange for a gift of imported sneakers. 


The irregularity of public transportation gave us a day on our own to explore.



To his credit Dad never said it.  I got the message from the back of this truck.


It took 12 hours to get to Tijuana on a crowded Mexican bus.  With chickens!


A neighbor lent us his truck when we returned to El Paso.  I am ashamed to admit that I nearly flew back to New York instead of accompanying Dad.  Filial duty prevailed in the end--along with a near arrest by Mexican police for illegally importing orange palm fronds that I picked up from the side of the road--but we never took another trip together.  I began spending all my vacation time in the Pines, with a different family.


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FLASHBACK: Family Politics (1986)

I drove Herr Cucaracha to Reedville, Virginia where my uncle and cousin owned property not far from the Chesapeake Bay.  It would have been hard to find Robbie's house from the highway if not for his homemade sign.  Then again, he also tuned in to Rush Limbaugh every day.

Dad had come up from Texas with Lois, my stepmother.  It must have been hard for her to visit relatives on my mother's side of the family even after Aunt Sissy, my mother's sister had died.

We headed to Washington, DC after staying overnight and headed straight to the Supreme Court.  Reagan recently had appointed William Rehnquist as the Chief Supreme.  

 


Lois, from Emporia, Kansas, was pretty conservative.  My father leaned libertarian.  I'm pretty sure I didn't tell either of them how Gore Vidal lampooned Rehnquist in Myron after the then associate justice signed an anti-pornography Supreme Court decision.

 

Nevertheless, we all wanted to see the deeply moving Viet Nam Veterans Memorial designed my Maya Lin.   If things had gone differently in our lives, the Hon name could have been inscribed upon it along with 58,000 others.  Dad had served in Saigon during the Tet Offensive and I had been eligible for the draft during my freshman year of college

 




















 

Tuesday, November 5, 2019

Family Reunion

My trip west had a second act that took me through some pretty country on Highway 89 in Arizona's Central Corridor en route to Dewey/Humboldt.


I hadn't seen Barb, my stepsister, since my father's funeral in 1992.  We go way, way back to high school in El Paso, when she was a regular in my dune buggy.  Buddy, her boisterous rescue dog, is a handful, that's for sure.


Barb hosted me in her new home in the mountains 90 minutes north of Phoenix. We picked up right where we left off and never stopped talking the entire time we were together. There aren't many people left who knew both my parents.  She still hasn't lost her ebullience.


Before I flew home late Wednesday night, I met her son Brett in Phoenix for a cup of coffee and our "This Is Us" moment.


Now 39, he was 16 when I last saw him.  He and his friend Nick came to visit me in New York.  Brett was the grandson my father never had.  They adored each other.


After coffee, Brett sent me this photo of the three of us. Our matching hats advertise the successful appliance repair business that Barb's younger brother established in Rock Springs, Wyoming.


So many pre-digital, uncurated memories! 


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