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Saturday, January 4, 2025

FLASHBACK: Berlin (Thanksgiving 2001)

I couldn't wait to get back to Berlin to see how much it had changed since 1963 when we drove there through East Germany from Heidelberg where my father was stationed.  It only took a photo op at Checkpoint Charlie to realize that I had been a witness to history, probably the first time I had been privy to such a feeling.


Dan and I flew into Tegel airport, where the Berlin airlift had taken place.  Chris was coming from Moscow once again for our second annual ABC trip.  The three of us shared a room for the last time, in a hotel not far from KaDeWe, which instantly became my favorite department store for its incredible array of men's wear.


Berlin Buddy Bears had just been introduced to symbolize German friendliness and optimism.



We hit the Pergamon, a showcase for classical art plundered from German archaeological digs, right away. I wore a pair of Army fatigues because I figured they would butch me up in the bars along with a skinhead haircut.


Chris and Dan stood at mock attention in front of the Reichstag, wrapped by Christo and Jeanne-Claude in 1995.  Chris does a killer German accent.



This time he didn't need to suggest going to the Jewish Museum, which had just opened. Daniel Libeskind's architecture--which included the Holocaust Tower, a structural element that made me feel as if I had stepped into a boxcar en route to a concentration camp, albeit a nearly empty one--had been acclaimed worldwide.  I reacted with a cold shiver unlike a small group of Germans . . . who laughed as they entered.  An extensive exhibit documenting bourgeois Jewish life in Germany prior to World War II informed and saddened in nearly equal measure.  Imagine if white supremacists in America managed to erase Black culture and you'll get an idea of the scale of the loss.  


The Garden of Exile, designed by Libeskind to evoke the unsteadiness and disorientation of Germans being forced to emigrate, is behind me.


The Berlin Cathedral--Germany's largest Protestant church--looms behind an enormous statue of Karl Marx and Friedrich Engels, the authors of The Communist Manifesto, in the former German Democratic Republic.  It became a popular tourist attraction after the re-unification of Germany in 1989.



Alexanderplatz was just a short walk away in the Mitte district.  The famous square is the setting for a classic German novel brilliantly adapted for German television by Rainier Werner Fassbinder in 1980.  After catching all 15 hours at the Museum of Modern Art, I wanted to experience in person what had been off-limits for much of my lifetime.


Chris returned to Moscow early.  After visiting the Deutsche Kinemathek, the incredible film museum, Dan and I headed to the Tor, a bathhouse near the Brandenberg Gate where I met Nanno.  When we asked him where to eat, he accompanied us to a local Turkish restaurant and invited us to his place in Schöneberg for brunch the next morning.  Nanno turned me on to Robbie Williams, for which I am forever grateful.  At the time, he clerked in a bookstore but eventually rose to the rank of publisher.


Nanno also called his sister, who worked at the Reichstag, to ensure us morning admission before our return flight the next day.  Set afire by the Nazis a month after Hitler won election (at least you-know-who has thus far spared the Capitol), its destruction represented the end of the Weimar Republic.  It's unclear if this engraved "W" refers to the German emperor at the time the building was constructed in the late 19th century, or the name of the republic.


Little did Nanno know his kindness could have gotten us arrested when he insisted we couldn't leave Berlin without seeing the historic government building from the inside. British starchitect Norman Foster (with a nudge) had added a glorious glass dome in the wake of re-unification just two years earlier, symbolizing a new era of transparency in German politics.


Ascending the spiraled walkway, from which the beautifully upholstered purple seats of the German parliament can be seen, gave me a juvenile idea (even at 38!).  I told Dan to remain on the middle level while I went below.  When I gave the signal, he held up his hand in a Nazi salute.  The result of the offensive photo op does not survive.  Three years later, when I recounted our hijinks to Florian, another native German friend, he was appalled.  "Are you crazy?" he shrieked.  "That's illegal!"


Need I add how much times have changed with the AfD poised to play a significant role in the German parliamentary system and at least two of the three most powerful people in American politics embracing the neo-Nazi party's right-wing agenda? 

More Berlin:

Berlin (2015)

More ABC Thanksgiving Travel:


*exceptions make the rule






Tuesday, September 20, 2022

Hot Fun in the Summertime



Anthony took Thom, Jerry and me to Point Lookout Beach, too.  A lifeguard thought I was in distress.  Embarrassing!


Thom and I staked a claim at Riis Park with Andrew & Steven.  They were newbies.  A week later, the New York Times published the first article I've ever seen about "the people's beach." It's about time!


It's a lot different than the Pines, where Victor invited Thom, Chris and I to spend time. Neither it or the Grove haven't changed much in our summer-long absence.   I can't say I miss Fire Island much.  Although there's less sun and sand in my life, there's less stress, too. Even reluctant house mothering takes a lot out of you.



Thom and I drove up to Randy's for a couple of days.  He took us sightseeing at the Florence Griswold Museum and the Gillette Castle on a glorious summer day.  Who knew there was so much to see in Connecticut?



Florian and Arko sent many greetings from Chicago.



Speaking of Germans, Nanno got back in touch with me.  We met in Berlin two decades ago. It's absolutely shocking how old we all get, particularly now when phones make high-quality photography so accessible!


Like me, Nanno stayed in the same apartment forever, although with much better reason: his has a terrace, as well as wall-to-wall bookshelves so tall he needs a library ladder.


My stepsister Barb and her husband Gary flew in from Arizona for a day tour of Manhattan before departing on a cruise.


9/11 Memorial
Saks Fifth Avenue
They took me to dinner before we went to see The Lion King.  Feta cheese dusted the watermelon salad.


Cynthia's daughter got married.  Would you believe the mother-of-the-bride baked both the wedding and groom cakes?



Cynthia wore false eyelashes for the first time, too!


Thom took me to Old Westbury Gardens for my birthday. We should have coordinated outfits.


My walks took me all over New York City.   

Upper West Side
Terminal B, LaGuardia Airport
Lobby, Bergdorf Goodman Building
Milton Avery Self-Portrait, Yares Art Gallery
"The  will to make things happen" (partial) by Woody De Othello, Whitney Biennial
"Apache School Girl" by Oscar Howe, National Museum of the American Indian
"Da Vinci Eternity" by Raphael Montanez Ortiz, El Museo Del Barrio
The staircase at the Museum of the City of New York is really something.


I'd never seen the Stettheimer dollhouse, built by Carrie, although I'm a great admirer of sister Florine's art.



"Activist New York" celebrates homegrown advocacy.  People forget how early Gloria Steinem--pictured here with Dorothy Pitman Hughes--recognized the intersectionality of the women's and civil rights movements.  Watch The Glorias if you don't believe me.


A signature hat represents the loudmouth contributions of Bella Abzug.


Currier and Ives illustrated "The Ladder of Fortune" as part of the temperance movement.


"New York, New Music (1980-1986)" included a Keith Haring drawing of Larry Levan, an influential Paradise Garage DJ. 


In case you forgot the location of the Garage, the exhibit provided this nostalgia-inducing nightlife map.


The Morgan Library introduced me to Rick Barton, a gay blade who's finally enjoying his 15 minutes of fame 30 years after his death.

"Barcelona" by Rick Barton (1962)
The Morgan also celebrated the 100th anniversary of the publication of James Joyce's Ulysses.  I'm surprised nobody mounted similar for "The Waste Land" by T.S. Eliot, also published a century ago.

James Joyce by Patrick Tuohy (ca 1924)
Robert Motherwell provided color etchings for a 1988 deluxe edition which follows Dubliner Leopold Bloom through the course of his day as if he were a mythological Greek wanderer. "Yes," the last word of "Molly's soliloquy," is about all I remember from reading the very, very difficult book in college.


I also noticed this statue of the bard of Stratford-on-Avon for the first time.

William Shakespeare by William Wetmore Story (1881)
Here's the ceiling of the New York Public Library's Celeste Bartos Forum.  The room was a basement when I worked there many years ago.  Julio Torres and Cole Escola superbly read scenes from WARHOLCAPOTE as part of an "NYPL Live" program, the best I've attended.  Rob Roth based his non-fiction play on 80 hours of musings recorded by two of my favorite 20th-century queer culture icons who had vague ambitions to write a Broadway hit of their own.  Funny and surprisingly poignant! 


And when there weren't any summer field trips on my agenda, Central Park continued to provide an endless supply of distractions from the routine of retired life.

"Ancestor" by Bharti Kher
DiscOasis Roller Rink
Oakleaf Hydrangea
Sunlit Jumpseed Blooms
Delacorte Clock
Dancing Bear Statue, Children's Zoo Entrance
Bee Balm
This graffiti magnet honors Andrew Haswell Green, the father of New York City.  Read The Great Mistake to find out why it's completely inadequate.